Let me explain something about my wife. She grew up a tomboy to a certain extent, sometimes even wishing she were a boy. You know that beer commercial where the bride catches the groom in the coat closet watching sports only to join in? That's my Spousal Unit.
She will often prefer Terminator over more girly fair such as Ella Enchanted.
That she is very much a girl is something I have appreciated for many years now even when she gets in the mood for a good romance. So, I dropped Spanglish into my NetFlix list.
Pros
How about a nice round of applause for making a father who is neither a jerk, a philanderer, an incompetent fool, nor an ogre (in the non-Shrek sense). Brave and daring stuff these days. How far have we come that this rates as an original concept?
Cons
Glorifying and normalizing illegal immigration. Nobody ever questions the status of this little family. The housekeeper's daughter gets a scholarship to a private school, later applying to Princeton all while living illegally in this country. Nobody bats an eyelash.
Normalizing extramarital affairs. While this film doesn't simplify or attempt to smooth over the pain of an affair, it does when it comes to reconcilliation. A few tears, hugs and promises and before long it's like nothing happened. Anybody outside of L.A. buy that?
Remarks
Tea Leoni has abs like I never did, even playing high school sports. Yoga, it would seem. She also happens to be a fun actress to watch. Adam Sandler stayed more in control than usual. Cloris Leachman was the real treat and nearly stole the show.
The scene, played in trailers, where Leoni cries,"Good guy [pointing at Sandler], bad guy [pointing at herself]" rang familiar to me. My wife complained on more than one occassion that moms have to deal with the nitty-gritty daily mess only to have dads swoop in like fun super-heroes.
Not a bad movie but I'm glad I waited for the DVD.